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The Importance of a Godly Man

Psalm 1:1-3 – “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.”

Yes, I know, it’s way past Father’s Day and my anniversary has come and gone this year. But I just want to tell you how important Godly men have been in my life. 

First, let’s look at a few attributes of a Godly man. 1) He doesn’t act like the rest of the world. He has a different set of values that he holds himself and those around him to. 2) His Bible is his rule of faith. He doesn’t look to movie stars or theologians or self help books for the answers to life’s questions. He seeks out the Word of God for questions that puzzle him. 3) He is firmly planted. You don’t have to worry if he will be there when things get tough – you already know. 

I have been so blessed to have Godly men in my life. The first, of course, was my daddy. He was far from perfect, but he was all the attributes listed above and so much more. The next is my husband. He isn’t perfect either, but neither am I. We fit together like a hand in a glove. He compliments me in ways that I never dreamed possible. I remember praying for him to come into my life. I never dreamed he would mean as much to me as he does. (Love you babe!) And by marriage, I gained another Godly man, my father-in-law. When my daddy passed away, I remember telling him he had some awfully big shoes to fill because he was now the only dad I had left. He sweetly said he would do his best. Like his son, he is all the attributes above and more. Last, but not least, I have my son. He is growing to be an amazing Godly man. His love for God and others blows me away sometimes. His insight and desire to serve is heartwarming. 

Now, I have many more Godly men in my life – my pastor, my brother, my church brethren and so many more. I am truly blessed. 

Godly men are so very important in a woman’s life. They provide protection, love, guidance and support. I would encourage you to love on the Godly men in your life. And remember, thank God for them. For He is the One that blessed you with them in the first place!


Mighty Men of Valor

Joshua 1:14 – “Your wives, your little ones, and your cattle, shall remain in the land which Moses gave you on this side Jordan; but ye shall pass before your brethren armed, all the mighty men of valor, and help them”(KJV)

Mighty men of valor. Where have you gone? Those men who would go out before their family and fight for what was right.

What is valor? It is a term that we don’t often hear these days. Probably because not many are worthy of the title. It means “strength of mind in regard to danger; that quality which enables a man to encounter danger with firmness; personal bravery; courage; intrepidity; prowess”. I got that definition from an 1828 Webster’s dictionary.

Now don’t get me wrong. There are still mighty men of valor. But what does it take in today’s world to earn that title? Oh, the first thing that comes to my mind is a Navy Seal or someone like that. People that don’t even think twice about danger. Those people are rare. They are certainly worthy of honor and respect. I know I couldn’t do that task.

But let’s think in our own homes. Men, and I know I have male readers, let me encourage you to be one of these “mighty men of valor”. As a wife, I want to depend upon my husband to make the tough calls. I want him to lead me with “strong hands”, to “stand up when I can’t”. I want him to face the dangers. I want him to lead me spiritually. He has a tough job, being my husband. Poor guy. I feel sorry for him. I can be a handful. And I admit it. But yet, I see him as a “mighty man of valor”. Oh, he’s not perfect. He makes me mad. But I know it is reciprocated. We don’t have the perfect marriage. But we are determined to try, with God’s hand around us.

The reason I’m writing this is because we need more “mighty men of valor”. We need them in our homes, in our churches, in our community, in our government. Look at David’s mighty men in 1 Chronicles 11:10-47. These men were TOUGH! They are out there defending Israel like it is nobody’s business. They are doing things that made Samson look like he needed a lesson. And they did it out of loyalty and love. Loyalty to their king and their brothers. And love for their family and their nation. These men were ready to take on the world – or at least a 7 1/2 ft tall man(vs. 23).

So my princess blog today is for you fellas. We princesses need a knight in shining armor. You may not win our heart, for our heart may belong to another, but you will certainly win our respect. We need to see you choose to stand up for what is right, even when it is hard and you don’t necessarily like it. Make the choice to love your wife. To honor her by choosing to work through it. Show your sons what it means to be a “mighty man of valor”. Show him how to make those tough choices. Show him how to love. Show him how to face danger. And please, whatever you do, don’t give up. God has called you to a very important task. One that can make or break the future. Make the choice to follow after David’s men or Joshua’s men. Whatever you do, just be God’s man to use.